Rambling post about being nice.

June 28, 2009 @ 6:48 am by The Book Babe - Uncategorized

Friday night was one of the best evenings I have had in a really long time. My super awesome friend Robin was over for a girly sleepover. We had a blast, talking, watching fun things, eating good food and having great conversation. One of the things we kept going back to was the idea of being nice. It is so much easier being nice than not. It just makes life so much easier. Being mean and catty and bitchy takes too much energy, so much more energy than being nice and supportive.

Since we spent so much time talking about being nice, the conversation inevitably turned to the PBB event and the generosity of all those involved. One of the questions I got from a lot of people when Project Book Babe started coming together was “Why”. What is it about me that would make so many authors want to do this amazing thing for me. It was a question that really threw me for a loop because at the time, I honestly did not understand “why” either. I think I finally get it after months of having it drilled into my head. I had never really thought about exactly how much I do for them. For me, being a book buyer is all about doing whatever I can to get good books into the hands of readers, kids and adults. I get so excited when I find a book that I know people will love! Anyway, the fact the event happened is total and complete proof, to me anyway, that being nice will get you farther in life than not. Because I did, and continue to (as much as I can), do so much for the PBB authors, they were willing to carve out time from their very busy schedules to come together and do this amazing thing for me. Which allows me the ability to be a full time patient without having to stress over a ton of things. I will always remember the generosity of the planners of the event and the attendees. Not just the authors but all those that planned, worked and attended. What an amazing thing, I still get a little choked up when I think about it. There are days when I am not really sure that it happened, it still seems so surreal…

Anyway, I am pretty much babbling at this point so will stop now with one last thank you to all my friends who do so much for me. I will never be able to say “thank you” or “I love you” enough to them. Especially those who are still working tirelessly on the PBB auction…

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Isn’t it amazing the simple act of ‘being nice’ can have such a huge effect?

A Nice Book Babe Buyer becomes a Cancer Fighting Vixen… with Her Army, they plan the hugely successful PBB: Save the Book Babe Event! … Cancer Fighting Vixen becomes Cancer Survivor and PBB turns into a non-profit to help others!!!!!!

WOW!!!!!

How absolutely thrilling and I cannot wait for another trip to AZ for future PBB events! Congratulations to the ‘more than just Nice’ people of PBB!

Aloha! -Chelsea

PS.- Thanks for Blogging.

Comment by Chelseamalia — June 29, 2009 @ 7:08 pm

Finally, someone championing the value of niceness. I’ve never bought into the whole “Dog eat Dog” thing, and I think your story definitely proves it wrong. And even if you don’t get any amazing rewards for your niceness, at least you can be proud of who you are.

SInce I’ve only met you once (and for only about a minute) I can’t personally testify much about your niceness (though you were very nice during that minute) But I can tell from your blog and the PBB event that you must be an amazing person (Plus anyone who believes in books and writers is a hero in my humble opinion).

So I guess what I’m trying to say (very inarticulately) is keep up the good work. And thanks for the post!

Comment by Shannon — June 30, 2009 @ 3:59 pm

It is more than just you being nice, though that is a necessary ingredient. You have this amazing enthusiasm. The energy that allows you to throw off the effects of chemo and go to a book signing and still be the most enthusiastic person there really sets you apart. I remember that enthusiasm when we were kids, before it really found a focus. You made simple things important- Oliver the bull and the Spice Girls would never have had meaning for me without your contagious sense of humor. When you combine that enthusiastic verve with your basic human niceness and a really worthy focus like books for kids you have the explosive combination that made PBB what it is. Faith rocks!

Comment by asia — July 7, 2009 @ 2:18 am

Faith… I’m so proud of you. You’re one of the strongest women I know. I miss you a ton. We must talk soon!!

Comment by Sabra — July 9, 2009 @ 11:40 am

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